there are many who are so lucky in love ,for whom the life is like a fairy tale with a happy ending of prince charming n lovely princess's love story
my post is not for them only my wishes for them
so what does actually goes wrong in every story that starts with love n ends with sorrow
"someday u wud cry for me like i cried for u,someday u wud miss me like i missed u,someday u wud need me like i needed u,someday u wud love me but i wud surely not love you"
it starts all with lack of understanding,lack of time(more so in long distance relationships) n the feeling that"why dont u understand me"
its such that we are so used to that sugar coated words in initial days of courtship that we fail to adjust to the emerging realities
"love is like a tender flower don't strangle in between Ur fingers it wud die"
n for those who cudn't make it-life doesn't end just remember its the same person whom u once loved
LOVE MAY HAVE ENDED BUT DONT END UP RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER PAIN WUD BE LESSER
People do believe love is not always happy, but I beg to differ. I mean, it is just my opinion, not trying to start an argument ;) . I believe trouble arises when we deviate from the path of love.. you know bring in ego, possessiveness, differences and all that and put it before love. So there, love is not even a priority and how can love be held responsible for something it didn't even be a part of. When love is all what one cares about, I can bet, there is no pain. It is hard though. Nice post. Cheers. :)
ReplyDelete@spandhana-may be u were lucky in love sweety
ReplyDeleten its good to hear all good things about love
super nice Pooja..love is something for which human beings are created, meant for but rather forgotten. Hope people always turn towards love for peace, give love a chance.
ReplyDelete@indrasis-thanx
ReplyDeletei always wait 4 ur comments
Darling , Love is the best and the worst that happen to anyone !! And what matters is that you experience the true bliss of love...Love you..
ReplyDeleteAs always very well expressed...
So our practical & bold Pooja is a emotional & sensitive girl at heart. A truth very beautifully expressed. It takes an instant to shatter a relationship, but sometimes even a lifetime isn't sufficient to create the magic of love. I'll pray to God that you become a part of the most memorable love-story. best wishes...
ReplyDeleteI beg ur pardon for asking a question!! Have you fallen in love anytime in your life yet??
ReplyDelete@ Spandhana- Their is no place for ego and differences in love!! love is devotion in which you forget ur ego ur differences with the person u are in love wid!! The moment you have differences and u cant sort it out then u should understand that this is not your true love coz in true love the differences are only for one night stand... And for the word EGO, it itself is made from E + Go, but in love its E+come... so it has no meaning and identity in love..
ReplyDelete@ Mam- love can never start with lack of understanding and lack of time... love always starts wid full understanding and full time... But here u can say that love ends wid the lack of understanding and lack of time!! Sorry for critising u!! Actually lots of passimistic people in this innocent world has misunderstood the feeling love...i feel so pity for them... not for u mam!!
ReplyDeleteWhen there is love .... nothing comes in between....but when it is just a time pass because you have got no other option and you need to have someone for sure...then its a real disaster...and people misunderstand it as love and suffer....because love never suffers...nothing can make it suffer...people with dual thinking make it a game and play it quite well....Nicely written blog...but seems ur heart says something else.....
ReplyDeleteRelationships that exist over a long time are built on trust and expectation. Feelings alone are not sufficient to guarantee success, specially when two people start living together. When they live together, expectations and performance do not match, slowly trust vanishes and finally the relationship fails. There is a big gap between the ideal and the real world. A lot of maturity is needed to understand that every person has his/her vices along with virtues unlike the Hindi movie protagonist. When the two realize and accept it, relationships flourish, else they fail.
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