is love always beautiful???????????

hi frnds
there are many who are so lucky in love ,for whom the life is like a fairy tale with a happy ending of prince charming n lovely princess's love story
my post is not for them only my wishes for them

a ques always comes in my mind -IS LOVE ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL??????????? n the answer is certainly a big no 
so what does actually goes wrong in every story that starts with love n ends with sorrow
"someday u wud cry for me like i cried for u,someday u wud miss me like i missed u,someday u wud need me like i needed u,someday u wud love me but i wud surely not love you"
it starts all with lack of understanding,lack of time(more so in long distance relationships) n the feeling that"why dont u understand me"
its such that we are so used to that sugar coated words in initial days of courtship that we fail to adjust to the emerging realities
"love is like a tender flower don't strangle in between Ur fingers it wud die" 

 but there is silver lining in dark cloud some of my frnds(akansha for instance) who are maintaining LDR very well n kudos to them
n for those who cudn't make it-life doesn't end just remember its the same person whom u once loved
LOVE MAY HAVE ENDED BUT DONT END UP RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER PAIN WUD BE LESSER

FIFA WORLD CUP N ?????????????

its not a story which is imaginary ,an incident that i wud definately like to relate to FIFA WORLD CUP 2010 
very very upset with argentina's n to be specific messi's performance
it seemed that these celebs dont deserve all the love n appreciation that we the fans give to them so i decided to take a break from this hectic schedule,mourning over brazil n argentina n decided to go to sarojini market for shopping -an every gal's moood buster
deboarded metro at rajiv chowk took an auto to sarojini nagar market with auto wale bhaiya's statement"meter se chalenge madam ji "price rise" hua hai auto fair me"(he literaly used the word price hike)
so i headed off towards sarojini market n took out the newspaper from my bag delhi times said"DHONI TO MARRY SAAKSHI" I WAS DISAPPOINTED NOTHING IS FALLING IN PLACE  i sometimes wonder why every most eligible's bachelor's marriage disaapoints girls(as if just 1 week before he had asked my hand out for marriage........)khair dhoni didnt ditched me  n the very feeling itself that i m going for shopping excited me The weather was lovely with the song"aate jaate huste gaate .socha tha maine man me kai baar"being played in autowent pass the india gate with lil showers a few couples were sitting on grass holding hands it felt romance was in air some memories flashed by n dhoni n messi took a back seat passing by janpath n akbar road made me feel good n proud about the green,clean n happy delhi
my auto then stopped at one of the red signals n then a child aged 7-9 yrs came rushing to sell coloured pens ,a girl came running with all fashion magazine's old edition  to sell ,it was sad to see these small children in their school going age striving to make a living
i decided to buy those pens while i was taking out money from my wallet a boy came running n said :madam ji 10 rs me 10 le lo ye to sirf 5 de raha hai" n they starting fighting hitting each other badly before i cud say anything signal went green n my auto wala bhaiya said"dilli me naye ho? in bachho ko muh mat lagaya karo"i turned back the images of two children fighting faded away n the scenes of romantic couple,india gate,soccer,dhoni.rains every one of them stayed at the signal only n i thought "THIS IS WHAT A LIFE TO BE" ,why life is not so romantic for these children?.why the girl selling vogue magazine was not wearing a proper dress herself? have they ever used the pens they were selling?are we lucky that we have sophisticated problems to worry about or are they cursed that their problem is 5 rs? 

with all these ques in my mind suddenly auto stopped n i heard"lo ji madam jiaaa gaya aapka sarojini"........n i replied"wapas le chalo bhaiya raajiv chowk"......................

where did those flock of birds went away??????????????????

Hi everybody

its world's environment day and a question came to my mind"where did those flock of birds went away"
when we were those lil children we always used to look up to the sky in evenings to see the whole gang n gang of birds flying high up in sky ,there were sparrows,parrots n endless no of colorful birds
but go n have a look at them now
"they have vanished somewhere"
thanx to us.to the civilized mankind to what we have made of our mother nature

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man has been endowed with the power to create
So that he can addd to what he's been given
But upto now he hasent been a creator
Only a destroyer
Forests keep destroying
Rivers drying up
Wildlife becoming extinct
Climate ruined
&land becoming uglier day by day
i am not here to discuss what can be the after effects if we keep on destroying the mother nature in the name of development at this pace only

  do we want that our future generations to know about sparrows through books n internet only???????????
dont they deserve to feel the miracle of mother nature through themselves???????????
i just wanna tell that we have taken so much from our mother nature that we owe her something n to our future generations also
"" I think that i will never see
a poem as lovely as tree
a tree whose hungry mouth is prest
Against earth's sweet flowing breast
A tree that looks at god all the day
And lifts her leafy arms to pray
 A tree that may in summer wear
A nest of robbins in her hair
Upon whose blossom sun has lain
Who intimately lives with rain
Poems are made by fools like me
But only god can make a tree"""""""""
HAPPY ENVIRONMENTS DAY
 

I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE ....HMMMMM.......HMMMM........ AM I SURE?

hi everybody
i thought about writing on this topic 'coz have you all wondered what we always wanted to be right from the time we started uttering words
just take ur wheel of memories in a reverse gear n u wud also wonder"ya !it always changed"

so here i am just trying to recall "WHAT I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE" 

when i first stepped into school i came across our class teacher "miss priya chablani" so pretty,so beautiful,so lovely to talk n everybody loved her she entered school empty handed n went away with a bunch of flowers ,every girl/boy wanted to share tiffin with her so i wanted to be like priya mam -a teacher

Then started another journey dad gifted me a colourful story book called"CINDRELLA"on my birthday n believe me all through my dreams i wanted to be cindrella ,one day i infact woke up to wash dishes n to look for the pumpkin cart n magical shoes those days...........very like fairy tales........in search of a charming prince
Then i came out of this dilemma that life is not a fairy tale n cindrella's fever ended up my great grandmother came to live with us from our village n like every elderly she also took her moral duty to entertain us with raja-rani,good vs evil,tales n one fine day she told us stories about India's freedom struggle she was an eye witness to it n  narrated to us in her own peculiar way with a tag line"fir bhi aaj ke jamene se angrezi raaz behtar tha" we were a;ways glued to her intresting stories full of bravery,valour n patriotism n one fine day came the story of "rani lakshmi bai"omg........i was so impressed n yes that was i wanted to be

"khub ladi mardani wo to jhansi wali rani thi"
a woman fighting against all odds for her country,for her self respect n no less than a man yes i wanted to be like that only

FIR ek din  we were asked by our house incharge to prepare a house board on "mother teresa" collecting information about her n reading about her made me realize how great the lady was so frnds 4 a time being i wanted to be mother teresa also

It was 1994 n sushmita sen became miss universe n it was "SUSH N AISH" everywhere media was full of praises indian women were recognized globaly n indeed they repesented a medium of change that was creeping into women's society i loved sush 4 that n yes .......... no need to repeat 
As i grew up i realized i was more affected by things happening around us social change,politics was my area of intrest thanx to my family where there always occured healthy discussions about political happennings my mom always adored "INDIRA GANDHI" n every discussion ended with my mom's statement"par indira ji jaisa dusra nahi aa sakta"

so when my ideas started taking proper shape i wanted to be like indira ji-a woman of fierce determination,substance,strong determination n having her own important place in a men's world

In between my heart felt with joy when "Kalpana Chawla"became 1st indian woman to go into space i loved her for her marvellous achievement,down to earth personality n simplicity

But u know what ?now i wanna be me n only me .i dont wanna be anybody else i want to be known by"Dr Pooja Tripathi" of whom my family n frnds be proud of
"I look around me
and my eyes confound me
and its coming into sight
at last happiness has found me
i dont have to search anymore 
all this time it was me i was looking for
in the dark i have found light
n it feels like never before"
sehar.........................................

THE BOY WHO WANTED TO MARRY ME.......................

I KNOW EVERYBODY MUST BE WONDERING WHAT AM I TRYING TO SAY????????????????

SS

SO  HERE I AM BACK TO DISCUSS WITH U ALL

A STORY ,A REAL ONE N ITS NOT ROMANTIC BUT FULL

OF LOVE,CARE N COMPASSION INDEED

 it happened one fine day when i was a "house surgeon" in the department of "pedodontia"(for my non medico frnds its a dept. for children) n it was a lazy afternoon when this 7 year boy called"DIVYANSH" came in with the help of his father n just tossing the nearby things so that he may not crash with them

At one view it appeared he was blind but as i went closer i came to

i asked his dad about him to which he said"namaste madamji"in his "tuti futi"speech n he instantly replied ki "mere daant me bahut dard hota hai" i asked his father the child's history n then i came to know that they lived in suburb region called "basna" Divyansh was a sick child from a younger age n they showed him to a local,quack doctor

know that not only his sight but also his speech was impaired

but when his health deteriorated they brought him to raipur n then thru the very experienced pediatrician  "padamshree Dr A. T. Dabke"they came to know that he had brain tumour n wwas in a very advanced stage n was referred to tata memorial ,mumbai where he underwent a surgery where he lost his sight n speeech partialy

"Divyansh" was a weak child.frail looking,almost no hair ,in pain but everyday in his 2.30 appointments he came wearing a smile on his face n his particular "namaste madamji" i loved the sitting i had with him i gradualy came to understand his stammering speech n we had a long talk also he was an exceptionaly brave child n always said "injection se to ladkiya roti hai ladke nahi" 

n then one day i asked him"bade hoke kya banoge" he replied "doctor" i asked "kyu" n answer was"mai un sab logo ko injection lagaunga jinhone meko lagaya hai aur sab bimari ka ilaaj nikalunga"

first time i realized what emotional turmoil n pain he is going through to carry the conversation on i asked "fir dr banke kya karoge" he said "shaadi" i asked with whom n answer was"mai aapse shaadi karunga madamji" i laughed with tears in my eyes

so"HE WAS THE BOY WHO WANTED TO MARRY ME............."

one day he didn't come ,other day also n then three days i called his home n his mother told he has gone to mumbai for a surgery i prayed for the child n after many weeks divyansh slept out of my mind n one fine day i got a call from his father saying that they are celebrating his bday 'coz maybe this was his last one n on his special demand he wanted to invite his "madamji"

on 6th may i went to his home n my eyes searching 4 the boy who proposed me n there was divyansh wearing his bday cap n so weak so frail n his vision lost completely he was happy to know that "madamji aayi hai" the party continued n i cud clearly see the smile on family's faces n pain in their eyes party went on with antakshari,fun games etc

then i  bid him goodbye as i wanted to run from that place as soon as i cud i kissed on his forehead n he asked will i come in his next bday also?knowing that this promise cud be never kept i promised n then said goodbye to everyone suddenly he called from back "madamjiiiiiiiiii"i turned n there he was offering me the same old "coconut toffee"which he used to bring in his appointments

i still wonder how he may be?but cant gather the courage to call at his home

I MISS YOU DIVYANSH ALWAYS IN MY MEMORIES 

IT MAY NOT HAVE BEEN A ROMANTIC MARRIAGE PROPOSAL BUT INDEED THE SWEETEST A GIRL CAN EVER HAVE

"GOD TOOK A LOOK AROUND HIS GARDEN N SAW AN EMPTY SPACE  HE TOOK A LOOK AROUND EARTH N SAW UR TIRED FACE HE PUT HIS ARMS AROUND U N LIFTED U TO REST 'COZ HE KNEW THAT U R SWEETEST FLOWER N HE ONLY PICKS THE BEST ,SO HE CLOSED UR WEARY EYES N WHISPERED COME TO ME,WITH TEARFUL EYES I WATCHED U N SAW U SLIPPED AWAY"""""""""""""""""""""""""""

 

kahin tumhe jab chod ke aao....................................

kahin tumhe jab chod ke aao

to lagta dil udaaas hai

kabhi tumse jab dur jao

to lagta dil me kuch aas hai

 tumhe aankhon se ojhal hote dekhna

kahin kuch acha nahi lagta

ye din ka yu gujar jana

kuch sachha nahi lagta

in hawao ka chalna

yu patto ka hilna

jaise dharti ko boondo ka intezaar hai

alvida kehte hue ye aankhen

jaise keh rahi ho

"ye meri ek aur khubsurat yaaad hai"

sehar......................

MAA TUJHE SALAM-HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

sakht raasto pe aasaan safar lagta hai
ye meri  maa ki duao ka asar lagta hai
ek muddat se meri maa nahi soyi jab
maine kaha"maa mujhe raat me dar lagta hai"

hi everybody
its mother's day- a day for mumma,mummy .maa........
MOTHER-a word thats higher than god in our lives
from the day we opened our eues in this world the first person we saw was "maa"{n lets accept that was love at first sight}

the first word,the first walk.the first cry,the first laughter,the first  fall n every little events of our life became her reasons to smile ,reasons to live

 for me mom has always been a strict woman in my life as i was always pampered by daddy
but now when i look back i realise it was mom who made me a good human being  i may have not understood then but ur "rok tok"only saved me from this mean world
maa u were the one whose life circulated around us from our homework to tutions to uniforms to shoe laces to every lil thing i

still remember maa when i was very ill u used to lay awake all night ,smiling before me n sobbing in other room{i heard it maa}
i saw u praying ,requesting n bribing god thru ur vaibhav lakshmi n mangalwar vrat only for ur children
maa u r an angel,u r god in disguise 4 all of us,what i am today i owe to you ,what i wud be better tomorrow i owe it to you
i dont need any mothers day to make u feel special 'coz u  r special everyday n wud always be
A mother is someone to shelter and guide us,
   To love us, whatever we do,
   With a warm understanding and infinite patience,
   And wonderful gentleness, too.

   How often a mother means swift reassurance
   In soothing our small, childish fears,
   How tenderly mothers watch over their children
   And treasure them all through the years!

   The heart of a mother is full of forgiveness
   For any mistake, big or small,
   And generous always in helping her family
   Whose needs she has placed above all.

   A mother can utter a word of compassion
   And make all our cares fall away,
   She can brighten a home with the sound of her laughter
   And make life delightful and gay.

   A mother possesses incredible wisdom
   And wonderful insight and skill -
   In each human heart is that one special corner
   Which only a mother can fill!"
THANX MAA THANKYOU FOR EVERY STEP OF MY LIFE

JUST WANNA DEDICATE THESE LINES TO 
"your mother is always with u
she's whisper of leaves
as you walk down street
she's smell of bleach
in ur frshly washed socks
she's cool hand on your brow
when u r not well
your mother lives in ur laughter
she's crystallized in every tear drop
she's the place u came from
your first home
she's the map u follow
with every step u take
she's ur first love 
n ur first heart break
nothing on earth can seperate
no time
no distance
will ever separate
not even death
from your mother"